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Mothers’ Instinct

12 Friday Apr 2024

Posted by David Smallwood in Film Friday

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“Science likes to strut around and Act Smart by putting its labels on everything, but if you look at them closely, you’ll see that they don’t really say much. “Genes”? “DNA”? Just scratching the surface. “Instinct”? You know what that means:

CURIOUS: “Why do birds fly South for the winter?”

SCIENCE: “Instinct.”

It means, “We don’t know.””

– From The Tao of Pooh by Benjamin Hoff

The 2024 film, Mothers’ Instinct is an adaptation of the 2018 French film, Duelles, which was based on the novel of the same name by Barbara Abel. In the film, Alice, played by Jessica Chastain, lives next door to Céline, played by Anne Hathaway. When Alice sees Céline’s son Max, played by Baylen D. Bielitz, balancing precariously on the balustrade of her neighbour’s balcony, Alice runs into her neighbour’s house to pull Max back down, but she gets there too late and Max falls to his death.

Following the tragedy, Céline starts hanging around with Alice’s son, Theo, played by Eamon Patrick O’Connell, but she does several things that make Alice worried about her intentions towards him. Céline puts ‘Bunny’, the cuddly rabbit toy that Theo cannot sleep without, in the open casket with the body of Max, leading to Theo having a justifiable outburst at Max’s funeral. Céline does eventually give the toy back to Theo, asking for forgiveness.

Other suspect actions by Céline include taking Theo onto the same balcony of the house that Max fell from to blow bubbles; helping fix the birdhouse that Max had made and had been trying to hang on a branch when he fell to his death; and putting nuts out at a dinner party she has invited Alice’s family to when Theo is allergic to nuts, then suggesting he go and find something from the draining board, where he proceeds to eat some peanut butter cookies that cause him to have an allergic reaction. This series of questionable acts are dismissed by everyone but Alice as the thoughtless actions of a grieving mother.

The third act reveals that that Céline has killed Jean, played by Caroline Lagerfelt, the mother of Simon, played by Anders Danielsen Lie. She then murders her own husband, Damian, played by Josh Charles, making it look like a suicide. This raises the question of why nobody but Alice is suspicious how so much tragedy is occurring around Céline. It cannot be because she is a woman, as if it was then Céline’s actions would be equally questioned. There is the possibility that Céline is believed because nobody wants to look too deeply into the actions of a grieving mother, but this is not enough on its own to establish the vast difference between how the two women’s stories are received.

Alice is not believed when she instinctually knows the truth, but Céline is believed despite a mountain of circumstantial evidence that suggests she is lying. The fundamental difference between Alice and Céline is that Alice does not conform to the early 60’s American ideal of the suburban housewife, while Céline does. The juxtaposition is established in an early scene during a cocktail party when Céline’s husband, Damian, tells Céline that she has had enough to drink and should not have another, which she accepts because she is subservient to her husband. In contrast, when Damian says that he is worried about John F Kennedy being too young to be President and handle the Soviets at the age of 44, Alice reels off a list of Theodore Roosevelt’s accomplishments in office and points out that he became President at 43. The problem for Alice is not that she is a woman, but that she is an intelligent woman.

Alice has another thing going against her, which is that she has previously been committed to a mental institution. Her husband, Simon, played by Anders Danielsen Lie, even threatens at one point to have her committed again. She had previously been institutionalised following a feeling of guilt over her parents’ death in a car crash, for which she felt responsible despite being asleep in the back seat.

It is often the case that people with psychiatric disorders who make a complaint to the police are dismissed because of those same disorders. It does not matter whether they have a legitimate grievance: the mere fact of them having a disorder ensures that their testimony is liable to be challenged on its veracity or even dismissed. This makes them the most vulnerable in society: people who can be victimised without recourse to intervention from authority. This leads to a phenomenon that could be described as ‘invisible crime’: crimes that are reported to the police or whatever relevant authority whose job it is to enforce the law, but they can say that the victim is making it up, that they clearly believe what is not true, or that there simply is not enough evidence for it, so it will not become an ‘unsolved crime’ but rather a ‘never-was’ crime, something whose very existence massages police targets.

When Alice finds her mother-in-law’s heart medication in a flowerbed, she realises that Céline has swapped it out for something else, asks for an autopsy, and discovers that the heart medication was not present in her body, despite both her and her husband seeing her take it. Her husband, rather than saying “Huh, that’s weird, we should really look into that.”, instead berates her for getting an autopsy on his mother’s body without her consent.

This is the third reason, after being an intelligent woman and having a history of mental illness, why Alice is not believed. When trying to convince someone of something, you need the person being addressed to either want to believe or at least be open to the possibility of believing. Early in the film, Alice talks about maybe going to back to work as a journalist at the gazette but is told by her husband that if she really wants to get back into reporting, she could write something for the school paper. This is textbook patronising, a word that comes from the Latin ‘Patronus’, meaning master, which comes from ‘Pater’, meaning father, implying talking condescendingly to someone like a father to a child. Simon telling her she could write something for the school paper could not fit this etymology more neatly. Alice is not believed by Simon because he thinks he is smarter than her. Céline, however, is believed because she is not trying to change the beliefs of others, only doing one thing and then providing her summary of events before the listener has time to form their own conclusions.

The film ends with a decision that ‘in this highly unusual situation’ Céline should become Theo’s guardian, but nobody questions why this ‘highly unusual situation’ arose. This is the fourth and final reason nobody believes what Alice was trying to convince them of: it was simpler to accept it. It was simpler for Simon to believe that his mother forgot his heart medication, it was simpler for him to believe that Alice was having a bout of female hysteria, and it was simpler for the person in charge of deciding the fate of Theo not to question why everyone around Céline except the boy died.

Alice was not believed because she was a smart woman, because she had a history of being diagnosed with a mental illness, because nobody was open to believing her and because it was simpler not to believe her. She had a ‘Mothers’ Instinct’, a correct one about what was truly happening, but she was unable to explain how she knew because the problem with instinct is that it is, ultimately, unexplainable.  

Wicked Little Letters and the Psychopathology of Edith Swan

05 Friday Apr 2024

Posted by David Smallwood in Film Friday

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“I remember golden days when all this was a mystery
and you could write a letter then or, God forbid, come visit me.”

– From “Necessary Evil” by The Dresden Dolls

In the 2024 film Wicked Little Letters, the devoutly Christian Edith Swan, played by Olivia Colman, receives obscene and insulting epistles from an unknown sender. Her parents, who she still lives with, suspect the culprit is Edith’s new Irish neighbour, Rose Gooding, played by Jessie Buckley, because of the latter’s in-your-face uncouth behaviour and language. Her father, Edward Swan, played by Timothy Spall, takes the letters to the local police force, who proceed to arrest Rose.

Around halfway through the film it is revealed that Edith has been sending the letters not just to herself but a myriad of other people in the surrounding area. After Edith is convicted for her crimes, Rose asks why she sent all those letters and Edith replies that she doesn’t know. The question arises from this: What is it about Edith’s personality and upbringing that made her capable of composing these poison pen letters, what motivation compelled her and why is she oblivious to what that motivation was?

Although the film is set in Littlehampton after the First World War, the anonymous nature of the letters and the liberal use of profanity resonates with contemporary fears about modern day internet trolls. Trolling is a nebulous term covering everything from being disingenuous and feigning stupidity to antisocial behaviour like cyberbullying and abuse. Although Edith Swan’s actions are indirect, (sending offensive letters to herself and letting Rose take the blame,) they are a form of harassment and therefore fall towards the more harmful end of the spectrum.

People who engage in such behaviour have been found to have three overlapping characteristics referred to as the ‘Dark Triad’: Machiavellianism, psychopathy and narcissism. A fourth personality trait, sadism, is sometimes added to make a ‘Dark Tetrad’. To what extent does Edith exhibit these traits in the film?

Machiavellianism is characterized by interpersonal manipulation and moral indifference. Early in the film, Edith says she does not want to show the letters to the police until her parents persuade her that doing so is the best course of action. When it is revealed that Edith sent the letters, the context of the scene changes: it looks instead as though her reluctance to get the law involved has been a convincing performance through which she has manipulated both her parents and the police into believing that she is an innocent victim, an upstanding member of society who has been unfairly mistreated. This scheme also exposes her moral indifference to the effects of her actions as she does not care about the repercussions for Rose.

Machiavellianism is also exhibited by Edith’s father, who it is revealed called Child Protection Services on Rose so that her daughter, Nancy, played by Alisha Weir, would be taken away from her mother as revenge for being insulted by Rose at his birthday party. He also sent away Edith’s fiancé, Sidney, because he did not want Edith to leave the household. It is believed that Machiavellianism as a personality trait is heavily influenced by genetic factors, so it makes sense that Edith would also try and manipulate others.

Another trait of Machiavellianism, which is also a trait of psychopathy and narcissism, is a lack of remorse and empathy for other people. Edith does not care about the effect of her actions on Rose and the other hate mail recipients. She does, however, feel sorry for herself when her own reputation is ruined. She is also ecstatic to escape the clutches of her overbearing father, claiming she will not return to him when her stint in the slammer is over. She only cares about her own wellbeing, not the feelings of others.

This lack of empathy is only enhanced in the era of internet trolls. Edith Swan personally knew her targets, whereas cyberbullies do not have to know even the name of their victim: they can just log on and comment on a random person’s picture or status update. This does not mean that all online abusers target strangers, only that there is the means to do so. Inherent in these attacks is a dissociation not possible in earlier, less connected, golden days. One pregnant woman on Reddit said she was told her partner after she discovered he had been abusing people online that: “He did not see them as real people.”

Psychopathy is a complicated subject with countless and sometimes conflicting definitions, but the main three components are the lack of remorse and empathy, a boldness and disinhibition that defy social conventions and lead to antisocial behaviour, and the superficial appearance of being normal or even charming. At first glance it might seem as though this definition applies more readily to Rose than it does to Edith, but the crucial difference is the ability to feel remorse: Rose feels guilty about lying to Bill, played by Malachi Kirby, and her daughter about having the child out of wedlock in order to preserve her reputation, while Edith feels sorry for herself that she got caught.

As to the appearance of normalcy, Edith portrays herself as a very religious woman who is friends with the vicar, Father Ambrose, played by Tim Key, and at one point even prepares to give a reading at the church. She also seems to be so prim and proper that she tries to correct the behaviour of other people that she feels have failed to act in an appropriate manner.

Aside from lack of empathy, narcissism is characterised by exaggerated feelings of self-importance and an excessive need for admiration. When she is pretending that someone else sent the letters, she speculates that ‘they’re just jealous.’, which is a strange thing to be of a woman who still lives with her parents, does not have a job, does not have a partner, and whose only friends appear to be the people at her Christian woman’s whist night, none of whom appear to even like her. However, once you understand that she has those exaggerated feelings of self-importance, it makes a lot more sense.

As to the excessive need for admiration, Edith is particularly proud of her past glories, including having writing so impressive that it was used as the signage for a local business. She is also distraught to discover during one of the whist nights that there are many people who do not like her and could potentially hate her so much as to send abusive letters to her.

The final and most questionable part of the ‘Dark Tetrad’ is sadism, which is deriving pleasure from the suffering of other people. Although Edith can see the pain she is causing; watching Rose have her daughter taken away, almost be convicted of a crime she did not commit and outed as having had a child out of wedlock; she continues to write the letters with a mad grin on her face. The audience is inclined to believe that she is taking pleasure in the effects of her letters, but if this is the case then why, when confronted about it, does she not simply say she enjoyed it? It makes more sense that she is not sadistic and is genuinely unaware of her own motivation.

The response she gives has modern parallels with people asked about cyberbullying behaviour. The woman mentioned earlier who discovered that her partner was an abusive troll confronted him about his online actions:

“I asked him, flat out, if he was harassing and bullying people online. He said yes, and immediately withdrew. After telling him that I needed to know why — really why, not just “I don’t know”, he said he needed time to think about it.”

Both Edith Swan and the Redditor took part in anonymous bullying without knowing the reason themselves. The Redditor did eventually come up with a reason:

“He said he trolled/bullied people because it was an outlet for him to relieve stress.”

One answer in the case of Edith Swan can be found in her upbringing and her treatment at the hands of her father, which is combined with the effect of her environment as she never left home. At one point, Edith is ordered by her father to copy out 100 times the following biblical passage from Proverbs 3 11:12 as a punishment:

11 My child, when the Lord corrects you, pay close attention and take it as a warning. 12 The Lord corrects those he loves, as parents correct a child of whom they are proud.

While she is copying out these lines, she stealthily takes a break to compose the abusive letters. The parallel is drawn between how she is treated by her father and how she treats other people. Like the anonymous Redditor, she does it to relieve stress but does not know that is why she is doing it. It is only when she is in the middle of this act, as well as when she is shouting obscenities at Rose in the street, that she seems genuinely happy. Studies have found that swearing alleviates stress and pain and this is also the case with Edith. Before she is taken away in the police van, she curses at her father in a cathartic release from his coercive control, a control that was so overwhelming that she was unable to comprehend her own actions.

The major difference between the actions of Edith Swan and modern-day trolls is the potential scale: Edith only managed to send letters to the Littlehampton area, but now people can send mass insults to anywhere on Earth with an internet connection. Edith Swan was a precursor to a phenomenon that has spread malignantly throughout the globe and become a problem of such magnitude that people in the 1920s could not imagine it and people in the 2020s do not know where to start in combating it. Edith Swan was only one example and was able to be punished for her crimes because she was under the jurisdiction of local law enforcement, but she cannot be the paradigm of how to deal with the torrent of abuse sent by modern-day online trolls who might not even be in the same country, never mind the same town.

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